To all those who don’t think the rape joke was a problem, or rape jokes are a problem.

    I get it, you’re a decent guy. I can even believe it. You’ve never raped anybody. You would NEVER rape anybody. You’re upset that all these feminists are trying to accuse you of doing something or connect you to doing something that, as far as you’re concerned, you’ve never done and would never condone.

    And they’ve told you about triggers, and PTSD, and how one in six women is a survivor, and you get it. You do. But you can’t let every time someone gets all upset get in the way of you having a good time, right?

    So fine. If all those arguments aren’t going anything for you, let me tell you this. And I tell you this because I genuinely believe you mean it when you say you don’t want to hurt anybody, and you don’t see the harm, and that it’s important to you to do your best to be a decent and good person. And I genuinely believe you when you say you would never associate with a rapist and you think rape really is a very bad thing.

    Because this is why I refuse to take rape jokes sitting down-

    6% of college age men, slightly over 1 in 20, will admit to raping someone in anonymous surveys, as long as the word “rape” isn’t used in the description of the act.

    6% of Penny Arcade’s target demographic will admit to actually being rapists when asked.

    A lot of people accuse feminists of thinking that all men are rapists. That’s not true. But do you know who think all men are rapists?

    Rapists do.

    They really do. In psychological study, the profiling, the studies, it comes out again and again.

    Virtually all rapists genuinely believe that all men rape, and other men just keep it hushed up better. And more, these people who really are rapists are constantly reaffirmed in their belief about the rest of mankind being rapists like them by things like rape jokes, that dismiss and normalize the idea of rape.

    If one in twenty guys is a real and true rapist, and you have any amount of social activity with other guys like yourself, really cool guy, then it is almost a statistical certainty that one time hanging out with friends and their friends, playing Halo with a bunch of guys online, in a WoW guild, or elsewhere, you were talking to a rapist. Not your fault. You can’t tell a rapist apart any better than anyone else can. It’s not like they announce themselves.

    But, here’s the thing. It’s very likely that in some of these interactions with these guys, at some point or another someone told a rape joke. You, decent guy that you are, understood that they didn’t mean it, and it was just a joke. And so you laughed.

    And, decent guy who would never condone rape, who would step in and stop rape if he saw it, who understands that rape is awful and wrong and bad, when you laughed?

    That rapist who was in the group with you, that rapist thought that you were on his side. That rapist knew that you were a rapist like him. And he felt validated, and he felt he was among his comrades.

    You. The rapist’s comrade.

    And if that doesn’t make you feel sick to your stomach, if that doesn’t make you want to throw up, if that doesn’t disturb you or bother you or make you feel like maybe you should at least consider not participating in that kind of humor anymore…

    Well, maybe you aren’t as opposed to rapists as you claim.

    Time-Machine (via a comment at


    The odds of being attacked by a shark in the US are 1 in 11,500,000, but no one gets mad at people who want to avoid the ocean.

    The odds of a woman being sexually assaulted in her lifetime are 1 in 6, but if she doesn’t feel safe around strange men she’s a stereotyping bitch.

    Strange old world we live in.

    (Source: lettuceiscurrentlyinmyasshole)


    "all opinions are valid" only applies to subjective shit like ice cream flavours, when it come to whether or not certain types of people are allowed to live safe and comfortable lives, I’d say objectivity was pretty fucking important.

    (Source: comfemgem)

    The rape joke is that you were eight.
    The rape joke is that at the time,
    you didn’t know people had sex to express love.
    The rape joke is that the only other person
    who’d seen you naked was your mom.
    The rape joke is that he called you ‘beautiful’ first.
    The rape joke is that he held your hands together
    and told you to ‘try harder’ when you struggled.
    The rape joke is that you believed him
    when he told you were overreacting.
    The rape joke is that your grandma
    called him a nice boy and asked him to stay for dinner.
    The rape joke is that he winked at you
    when you apologized to your parents for not coming
    downstairs the first time you were called.
    The rape joke is that his friends
    high-fived him for “getting some.”
    The rape joke is that you still don’t feel like
    you’ve regrown the pieces he stole.
    The rape joke is that he was conceived when his
    dad slapped himself into his snoring mother.
    The rape joke is that her friends told her
    she was lucky someone wanted her.
    The rape joke is that each year in the United States,
    32,000 other women’s bellies
    ripen with life against their will.
    The rape joke is that he never learned
    to touch without scarring.
    The rape joke is that your classmate thinks
    ‘have you seen what asses look like in yoga pants?’
    is an argument.
    The rape joke is your new boyfriend kissing
    you and telling you he ‘raped’ his math test.
    The rape joke is that ‘Why are girls so scared of rape? Y’all should feel pride that a guy risked his life in jail just to fuck you’
    is a popular Tweet right now.
    The rape joke is that you wake up to
    the memory of him laughing,
    “now that wasn’t so bad, was it?”
    The rape joke is that it’s been twelve years and
    you still quiver when someone touches you.
    The rape joke is that he hasn’t stopped laughing.
    The rape joke is that you forgot how to.

    The Rape Joke | Lora Mathis  (via fuckinq)

    (Source: lora-mathis)




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    Poor penguins, but aww though.